*sigh* I was afraid I would be hearing stuff like that. But I know. I probably should take the offer. But damn, it's just so hard!

Maybe I could arrange it so I wasn't home during the whole thing. Maybe visit my own mom or something, and let hubby take care of his mom while she goes all hurricane on the house. She will probably listen even less to any boundaries he might set up, but at least he won't panic at the notion. I quiver at the thought of having a full blown panic attack while mum in law is here. :o(