Musings on my sexual/romantic preferences.
I think I've had something of a light bulb moment about my bisexual leanings. I've always known I was predominantly straight, but every once in a while I'd see a girl and go: "wow, I'd hit that!"
So about 90% straight perhaps. Maybe 80%. *shrug* In any case, there's totally room for a few girls here and there in my eye-candy folder.
However, it occurred to me today that I have yet to feel any sort of romantic attraction to women. When I'm horny, either gender can apparently float my boat, but when I'm aiming for a relationship, I have so far only wanted men.
I've even made a conscious effort of wondering if a woman couldn't fill the same need with me (because damn, there are some gorgeous gay and bi ladies in my circle of acquaintances) but sadly, it seems I'm just not wired that way.
That isn't to say I don't like the company of women. Hell, 99% of my (limited) social life is provided by women. And maybe that's kind of the problem. I know women, maybe a little too well. Men will always be a little bit of a wonder to me, I think. (Freud would have a field day with this, and the lack of steady father figures in my childhood...)
Oh, and it's worth noting here (which I'm sure would interest certain scientists) that trans men have the same effect on me.
As a closing note, I can think of no better time than this to add that I'm totally available for lovin'. Just say the word. :o)
So about 90% straight perhaps. Maybe 80%. *shrug* In any case, there's totally room for a few girls here and there in my eye-candy folder.
However, it occurred to me today that I have yet to feel any sort of romantic attraction to women. When I'm horny, either gender can apparently float my boat, but when I'm aiming for a relationship, I have so far only wanted men.
I've even made a conscious effort of wondering if a woman couldn't fill the same need with me (because damn, there are some gorgeous gay and bi ladies in my circle of acquaintances) but sadly, it seems I'm just not wired that way.
That isn't to say I don't like the company of women. Hell, 99% of my (limited) social life is provided by women. And maybe that's kind of the problem. I know women, maybe a little too well. Men will always be a little bit of a wonder to me, I think. (Freud would have a field day with this, and the lack of steady father figures in my childhood...)
Oh, and it's worth noting here (which I'm sure would interest certain scientists) that trans men have the same effect on me.
As a closing note, I can think of no better time than this to add that I'm totally available for lovin'. Just say the word. :o)
