Speaking as someone who has always been single (minus a few interruptions that weren't pleasant AT ALL and are to be dismissed and not repeated), I can tell you that it is a nice thing to be alone (not in a 'live alone' sense, mind, I'm talking about the no relationship alone sense). You don't have to depend on another person and you don't have to consider hurting any feelings when you say you find someone else attractive or whatever. You're not bound by any limits. (Granted, you have Pea, but that's not what I mean here.)
I might be biased here because I absolutely and totally prefer being single above anything else, I can't stand relationships, but I do think the positive aspects outweigh the negative ones by a factor of a zillion (if there ARE any negative aspects AT ALL, for me, there aren't any, I get it that other people think differently about this, though).
I also like the idea about exploring your bi side. XD
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Date: 2010-07-20 04:47 pm (UTC)I might be biased here because I absolutely and totally prefer being single above anything else, I can't stand relationships, but I do think the positive aspects outweigh the negative ones by a factor of a zillion (if there ARE any negative aspects AT ALL, for me, there aren't any, I get it that other people think differently about this, though).
I also like the idea about exploring your bi side. XD