Well said. I agree and also, I would change the locks. He'll make a menace of himself and just give you lots of grief if you don't. Do you want floozie having access to the key to your home you share with Pea?
I know how hard all of this is for you. But you are doing so well with all the sorting and packing you've done! The hardest thing for me was trying to function and get things done with the depression. I just wanted to crawl into a hole.
I gave in a lot ... I just wanted it to be over, so I made a lot of sacrifices. I wasn't firm with him when dividing important personal items and now I wish I had been.
It's so hard to stand up for yourself when you've had all the wind knocked out of your sails. But do try to be firm and don't let him get away with anything. You'll be much happier later and that is what really matters.
This all sounds too much like a lecture, but that is not what I intended. I guess in a nut shell, I wish I had not taken the path of least resistance.
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Date: 2010-08-10 12:34 pm (UTC)I know how hard all of this is for you. But you are doing so well with all the sorting and packing you've done! The hardest thing for me was trying to function and get things done with the depression. I just wanted to crawl into a hole.
I gave in a lot ... I just wanted it to be over, so I made a lot of sacrifices. I wasn't firm with him when dividing important personal items and now I wish I had been.
It's so hard to stand up for yourself when you've had all the wind knocked out of your sails. But do try to be firm and don't let him get away with anything. You'll be much happier later and that is what really matters.
This all sounds too much like a lecture, but that is not what I intended. I guess in a nut shell, I wish I had not taken the path of least resistance.
Big hugs, Boo. Really big hugs for you.