Raise him to know that people love in different combinations. It would be good for him to know Gay, Lesbian and of course he will know straight couples like the 2 of you. Most times when a kid tells his parents he or she is Gay, they have thought about it for a while. My son, Hunter, said he knew when he was 3. I have to take his word for it. I did not figure it out till I was 21 and then it took till I was 30 to come out. But I believe women are a different species. Now, here in the US, kids are not so much coming out as Gay but they 'hook' up with both sexes without an identity. That is some kids, and they are cool with this. People do different things at different times. I have had 2 husbands. Got over that but it took me a long time. Your son will grow up loved. And you will delight in him in whatever life path he goes. I have faith.
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Date: 2009-10-13 04:43 am (UTC)Now, here in the US, kids are not so much coming out as Gay but they 'hook' up with both sexes without an identity. That is some kids, and they are cool with this. People do different things at different times. I have had 2 husbands. Got over that but it took me a long time.
Your son will grow up loved. And you will delight in him in whatever life path he goes. I have faith.