Pics?

[ladydrace]

I just posted this on Tumblr, but then I realized that no one would be able to actually discuss it with me, so I'm posting it here too.

NSFW TEXT AHEAD!

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I suddenly had the thought… if dick pics are so rampant in straight and gay male circles, what about lesbian circles? Are vagina pics a thing? Muff motifs? Pussy pics? Snatch snaps? Clam caps?

Comments

[ladydrace]

Possibly a strap-on pic would be more poignant?

But, then again, that's assuming the aim is penetration. It's sort of an unsaid statement of "this can be used on/in you" with dick picks, but if no penetration is involved at all, not even fingering, then that message falls flat. So if the vaginas are "equal" the message should in theory be different. In theory. The question then becomes: can a vagina be the aggressor here? "Imagine this on your face" just doesn't have quite the same ring to it, IMO.

But I think you're right in the sense that it's probably not a thing. Especially since even (or perhaps especially) lesbian women have no doubt recieved unwanted genital pics themselves, and would be more aware of how unwelcome they are in general.

[whit_merule]

Yes - and since such a lot of the meaning of PENIS IN YOUR FACE is rooted (hah) in gender dynamics - even in a m/m context - it's tricky to see how/whether that would translate across.

This is what happens when we have sexualities that are so very invisible across so much of history. We have no cultural language fo rthem!

[ladydrace]

Yeah, the binary isn't really doing us any favors here.